WHY WOMEN ARE SO ATTRACTED TO THE BAD GUYS
There are good boys and then there are the bad boys, the ones
who are not mama's lad; the mysterious, rebellious and charmingly attractive
men. it's a popular saying that good guys finish last, and the reason behind
this is because a majority of women are more attracted to bad boys than the
husband material ones. Although they may eventually settle with the good ones,
in order to have a proper family life, they can't help but still have the hots
for the bad boys around them.
BEST OF BOTH WORLDS
Ladies want a bad boy who
will be all swagger and attitude to the world, but soft and caring with them. They
want to make them good and homely so that they get the best of both worlds; the
advantage of having a bad boy on their side as well as having a good one at
heart. However, this doesn't really happen and they end up with heartbreaks,
sadly.
DIFFICULT TO HAVE
Women are known to want what they can't have or what other women
have. This catly nature of most women makes them fall for and dream about
getting the bad boy because they are coveted by many other females. If they get
his attention, if makes them feel important and higher than other females vying
for him.
SENSE OF MYSTERY
An open book is a boring
book. If a guy is a jabber mouth, whose whole life story you know about, then
there is nothing left for the woman to discover and know. She get bored
easily. Bad boys always have this sense of mystery around them and are men of
few words. this make the females inquisitive and get attracted to such
guys.
BOLD AND DARING
Bad boys are rebels with
or without a cause. They are gusty guys who fear no one, be it family or
society. They do their own thing, display a high confidence level, have a
swagger and care - a - damn attitude. This makes them stand out and looked up
to by people in awe.
WRONG BUT FEELS RIGHT
Good guys are just too boring and vanilla. Yes, they are fine for long term settlement, but that romantic spark and charm is more often than not, felt with a bad boy than a good one. They very fact that a bad boy who cares not about the world choose them, makes women go week in the knees, even though he will not last for long.
CONSTANT DRAMA
Women, almost all, are drama queens. They wish that the dramas and emotional conflicts they see in movies and serials be experienced by them in real. Good guys are secure and stable so they won't provide much of drama, but with bad with bad boys there is drama overload and women love that.
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HOW TO MAKE HIM HAPPY :D
Does keeping your man happy require an effort? If you say 'yes' then you are wrong. Simple things done is a sweet manner can keep him happy everyday. This is good for your relationship.
COMPLIMENT HIM OVER SMALL THINGS
Compliment him ; this make all the difference. Men feel good receiving compliments from their better halves. This could be related to work or appearance.
GIVE HIM THE SPACE
when he comes home, greet him with a smile. This is the best way to make him smile and happy. He will forget his stress.
LET HIM RELAX
Do not force him to talk to you. Let him relax and take his time. Read his face and know when he is in the mood to talk, this will make a difference.
CALL HIM THOUGH OUT THE DAY
Call him twice or thrice a day and assure him that everything is good. Do not crib on issues when you call him. This is not a good idea.
INVITE HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS OVER DINNER
Surprise him by inviting all his friends and family over dinner. These things can make all the difference in the relationship.
BE POLITE
Respect your man and polite. Using words like '' please '' and '' thank you '' can make him feel good. Do remember this.
ASK HIM FOR PERMISSION
If you ask him for permission, he will really feel good. This also increases mutual respect in a relationship.
EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS
Expressing your feelings time and again is a good idea. Any form of expression would do, be it writing or singing. Or else just ' I LOVE YOU ' to him.
ENCOURAGE HIS HOBBIES
If he like something. go ahead an encourage him. Tell him to pursue his hobbies and provide a backup, which he needs.
PLAY GAMES WITH HIM
Does your man love to play video games?
Then join in and play with him. He will feel good and happy. Try it the next time and see a difference.
WATCH SPORT WITH HIM
Most women hate sports. But it is a good idea to accompany him while watching sports. This will make him happy and he will think about you need too.
ARRANGE FOR A SPECIAL DINNER
Simply arrange for a dinner date and prepare his favorite meal. e would cherish the moment spent with you.
KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN
Keep the house clean and tidy. This makes all the difference. He will feel good about this.
DO NOT CRIB
Women have a tendency to crib over small issues. If your maintain you calm, He will feel good.
TELL HIM YOU ARE LUCKY
Tell your man that having him in your life means a lot. Tell him that you are lucky to have him. This will surely make him HAPPY.
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HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
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IDEAS FOR FABULOUS SINGLES
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HOST AN ANTI - VALENTINE'S DAY PARTY
Go with a '' love hurts '' theme and use all black decorations. No flowers, no cards, no candy.... just good food, good friends, and good drinks.
GO OUT TO DINNER AT FANCY RESTAURANT WITH OTHER SINGLE FRIENDS
Treat yourself to some place really special, and get a delicious dessert - you don't have to share it!
GET COOKING
Plan a big dinner for single friends, and spend the day shopping and cooking. Sometimes, all that chopping and sauteing can be totally therapeutic.
**EXPRESS YOUR LOVE FOR THE IMPORTANT PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE
Take time out on Valentine's Day to write a heartfelt note to your parents and grandparent. These are the people that truly love you unconditionally and they'd be so happy to hear from you.
GOOD GIRLFRIEND
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SHOW YOUR LOVE
You can be a good girlfriend and tell him how much you love him, but to be a better girlfriend, show him! Get your head out of the gutter this doesn't involve trench coats and flashing, I'm talking about showing your love through love notes, bringing him and his friends pizza on football night, or showing that you are proud to be with him.
TRUST HIM
Nobody wants to date Sherlock Holmes and if you give it some thought, you will understand that there is no need to turn into a famous detective... at least no before a crime is committed. Going through his pockets, personal items, calling him just to check if he is really where he said he'd be - that sort of behaviour certainly has ''insecurity'' and ''doubt'' written all over it and, guess what? Men don't respond all too well to it. They are like those rubber colorful bouncy balls - if you throw it too hard, its going to bounce so fast and you probably won't be able to catch it! Trust him, forget all your fool proof interrogation methods and you'll see - he will start talking and you'll get to know everything he did during the day.
DON'T TRY TO CHANGE HIM
You can't take a beast and turn it into a prince, I think we've already figured that out. I mean come on, he's not a science project! In fact, let's try to observe things from a different perspective - how would you feel if he wanted to changed everything about you? Men do change when they finally meet the women they want to spend their life with < just like women change when they meet the right man > but they don't become entirely different people - it's just a process of growing up.
